While every case is unique, here are the typical warning signs of someone who has gotten into a destructive cult such as Avatar. If you are not sure what to do, please see our next section – Family and Loved Ones.
- Radical change in personality
- Secretive, evasive, or defensive behavior
- Preaching to loved ones as though they need to be “saved” or “enlightened”
- Spending the vast majority of their time with controlling group/individual
- Loss of contact with loved ones (in person, phone, social media…)
- Radical change in physical appearance
- Change in speech patterns, facial expressions, or mannerisms
- Giving up large amounts of money and other assets
- Seeking approval from controlling group/individual before making decisions
- Decreased sense of humor
- Lack of interest in former hobbies and friends
- Spaced out expression, glassy stare
- Judgmental attitudes towards loved ones
- Use of buzzwords and canned speeches
- Pressuring others to donate money to the group or go “on-course” with them
- Asking for huge amounts of money
- Decreased physical affection
- Self-imposed isolation
- Missing family events such as births, birthdays, baptisms, engagements, weddings, anniversaries, illnesses, funerals
- Change in political or religious beliefs
- Refusing to seek treatment for physical or mental illnesses
- New residence with strangers such as a group home, commune or hotel accommodation
- Change in sleeping habits, especially not getting 7-9 hours of sleep per night
- Change in eating habits, especially not getting enough protein
If you are concerned, please see our next section – Family and Loved Ones.
You can also contact Amanda directly for initial support: avataruncovered@protonmail.com
I can then guide you to the right sources which will help you for your specific situation.